If you had to describe your ideal man what picture would you display? Of course many woman, would give you a break down of there dream man but when we break down the functions that you are describe, are you describing a Man or a Male Dog.
What is a REAL MAN??
At birth, a boy is born as a male with male characterics and male features. As this boy grows and matures he becomes a man. It is a process, not something that can just happen over night this takes time,like a young lady to a women. This is not something that can be rushed nor can someone give it to you as a gift, it is to be learned. There is basic knowledge that you must grasp in order to consider yourself to be a man.
A man is responsible for his words and actions, he is reliable, dependable,and inspiring. A real man makes decisions and lives with thoses decisions that he has created for himself. In order to make a decision you must know the basics of that decision the foundation as to where that decision comes from. Real man have solid foundations, which has shaped this male into a man. A real man is strong, he does not cry, he does not complain or bitch, he rolls with the punchs as they come. He is the backbone of the family and does not have time to be weak. A real man is focused, he does not have time to deal with pettie things that he can not benefit from, his focus is on money, family and power. He doesnt focus on sex because sex comes from the power. A man understand's the meaning of family. A man is clean and very well kept but does not look like a woman.He wears a suit at least 3 times a week. A real man does not gossip. He makes promises that he can keep . His words is bond, he would rather die than break his word. He sets the example for himself and his family, very respectable even if he has been disrespected. A man never shows his children his weakness, what is done at work stays at work. A man works for everything he has, he does not believe in handouts, no charity work, he who interancte fathers money mulitiples it times 10. A man is not lazy and keeps his house in order. But most of all a real man can defend himself.
| Real Man | Male Dog |
|---|---|
| does not carry a grudge | looks for ways to get even |
| looks to better himself; he will invest in his success | complains that he has to stay where he is |
| gives to his community | takes from his community |
| is measured by character | is measured by his sex drive |
| is a protector of women in general and committed to one woman in particular | views a woman as an object of pleasure, and isnt committed to anything |
| his word is his bond | has no words, tells you what you want to hear |
| a real man is a leader | is a follower |
| thinks with his big head | thinks with his little head |
| uses his intellect and emotions to make decisions | makes emotional decisions |
Man vs. Male Dog
Thinking about the difference between a real man and a male dog. The difference is, a male dog is to be taught, you must trained a male dog to be a good dog while a man, if a man is a man then there is no need to train that man how to be a man. He will have been trained to become a man as a boy. Like raising kids, why do I need to train a man to be a man. I am not that man's, mother or father. Funny, some grown men do not even know the definition of who they are and what they must become, so stuck trying to be something there not clouding there reality of a live that they dare to dream instead of living there dreams, playing that dream as there reality while stealing living in your mothers house . But you consider yourself to be a man? In my eyes your just a mommas boy, depending on your mother to take care you. At what age does a boy become a man?
Food For Thought
Let it be told, a male told me that all men are dogs you just have to know what kind of dog you have. I thought alot about what he said, men are not dogs, males are dogs. A man will never degrade himself to be anything less than a man. He is already degraded enough in soicety why belittle yourself by refering yourself to a 4 legged creature.
